Friday, May 27, 2011

mother outlaw

i gave birth to 3 sons two and a half years apart.
my oldest, tanner, is 29.  willy was born next and will be 27 on the 1rst of june
and duncan, my youngest, is 24.

when they were little scamps, i would try to imagine what it would be like when they were tall,
grown up men.
that time has come and when i stand in the midst of them, i feel such love and admiration.
i'm no longer the one to care for them and i feel almost small around them.

i have, over the years prayed for the women who might become their companions.

being kinda old fashioned and traditional, i of course imagined them getting married, maybe settling down,
and giving me some grandchildren.
things don't always go the way we plan or imagine.
but even though i don't have daughter in laws or grandchildren, i have been honored by my sons.

it has been said that men marry their mothers. they find somone with qualities or attributes of their mother.
maybe that's why some mothers don't get along with their daughter in laws.
maybe they're too much alike.
well, God has blessed me.

none of my sons are married, so even though i'm a mother outlaw,
they have chosen women who honor me.
these young women have brilliant qualities.
 unique talent, courage and integrity .
they are all beautiful, quick witted and educated.
and above all, they love my sons and believe in them.
i couldn't be more honored.
i take pride in them and am priveledged to pray for them and delight in them.
thanks boys.  treat your women right! 
they're my girls! my daughter outlaws :)
adelheiid

talia jean





charlotte







3 comments:

  1. Gigi, this is so sweet. Thank you so much. You are a beautiful lady and I am so grateful and blessed to know you. And all the fam, and all the ladies:)

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  2. thank you gigi <3
    it's a joy to be part of your growing family :)

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  3. hey girl,
    heard the outlaws were with you yesterday!!!
    Want to hear all about it :D
    teri x-x

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